What in the actual heck happened to 2021?? I am really not sure. All I know is....I didn't get accomplished all I thought I would. That only means one thing,....there's more to do in 2022.
I don't know if you are in the same boat. But we can be honest here. We all usually have our reasons for not getting done what we had planned. Sometimes that are valid reasons. Sometimes it's because we didn't do it. Plan & simple.
What I realized though, is that many of those reasons the things you had planned to accomplish didn't come to fruition is because you likely didn't truly believe you could achieve it. Why? Why is it that many people, especially women, will set a goal & follow it up with a comment under their breath...."I guess....I will give it a go & see how far I can get. It would be super cool but I won't hold my breath though".
Can you hear it?? Can you hear the instant FAIL as soon as those words hit the air? Why?? Wanna know why? (I learned this really not that long ago,...about 2 years ago. And if you think you're too old to dive into this type of "self image" overhaul,....you're not. I am 43 & loving this life I have learned so much about.)
It's because of YOUR perception of YOU.
Your perception of you is based on past insecurities you have about yourself or that you have been "conditioned" to believe about yourself.
Ever have someone criticized you so negatively, it made you refuse to try again in fear of further discount?
Ever have a parent continually raise the "approval" bar, it seemed impossible to reach you quit trying?
Ever failed at something as a child that the feeling of embarrassment & sadness is still so vivid?
All of these memories held subconsciously....so they only rear their bedhead when you attempt to "go for it!"
This is how our perception of "self" is created and usually maintained. Maintained because we never release those old measures/boundaries we unconsciously accepted. That where you now think there's no more you can do.
They say you have one "at bat" in life, but just because you missed a hit doesn't mean you can't swing again. You get 3 pitches don't ya? Or even more if you hit a foul ball! ;)
Give yourself permission to go at it again. There's more to do in 2022.
Just keep your eye on the ball, aka your desire/goal at all costs. You are your own biggest fan. If you aren't yet,....borrow my belief in you to get there. I bet you get there way faster. Why? Because when you have someone believing in you, it doesn't matter who doesn't. It doesn't matter whos in the stands. You will knock it out of the park regardless.
There's more you can do. Here's a few things you can do until your belief matches my belief in YOU.
- Get a journal, note pad, or scrap piece of paper for that matter....just something.
- Write a letter...not just any letter, write a letter to yourself (yes I said to yourself) congratulating you on achieving your goal/desire/vision saying all the things you wish you would have heard from someone supportive.
- Read it daily for 30 days. Read it will pride for yourself & feel those feelings.
- Use essential oil blends like HIGHEST POTENTIAL, VALOR, LIVE YOUR PASSION, ABUNDANCE, OR ACCEPTANCE, on the wrists, back of the neck, ear lobes, or top of the head. Get your hands on these oils HERE.
I would love to cheer you on....Send me a pic/screenshot of your "Congrats" Letter.
I will read it for you & hold that vision of you achieving your goal/desire & pray that you start feeling & believing it to be true as you work toward it.
Borrow my belief in you for 2022. There's so much more for you to do. The world needs YOU.
Cheers & much gratitude,
Deborah.
